Once upon a time a daughter complained to her father that her
life was miserable and that she didn’t know how she was going to make it.
She was tired of fighting and struggling all the time. It seemed
just as one problem was solved, another one soon followed.
Her father, a chef, took her to the kitchen. He filled three
pots with water and placed each on a high fire.
Once the three pots began to boil, he placed potatoes in one
pot, eggs in the second pot and ground coffee beans in the third pot. He then
let them sit and boil, without saying a word to his daughter.
The daughter, moaned and impatiently waited, wondering what he
was doing. After twenty minutes he turned off the burners.
He took the potatoes out of the pot and placed them in a bowl.
He pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. He then ladled the coffee out
and placed it in a cup.
Turning to her, he asked. “Daughter,
what do you see?”
“Potatoes, eggs and coffee,” she hastily replied.
“Look closer” he said, “and touch the
potatoes.” She did and noted that they were soft.
He then asked her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off
the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg.
Finally, he asked her to sip the coffee. Its rich aroma brought
a smile to her face.
“Father, what does this mean?” she asked.
He then explained that the potatoes, the eggs and coffee beans
had each faced the same adversity-the boiling water. However, each one reacted
differently. The potato went in strong, hard and unrelenting, but in boiling
water, it became soft and weak.
The egg was fragile, with the thin outer shell protecting its
liquid interior until it was put in the boiling water. Then the inside of the
egg became hard.
However, the ground coffee beans were unique. After they were
exposed to the boiling water, they changed the water and created something new.
“Which one are you?” he asked his daughter.
“When
adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a potato, an egg, or
a coffee bean?”
Moral of the story:
In life, things happen around us, things happen to us, but the
only thing that truly matters is how you choose to react to it and what you
make out of it. Life is all about leaning, adopting and converting all the
struggles that we experience into something positive.